It’s #natural to be disappointed in people. She failed to show up for you when you needed her. He let you down after promising he wouldn’t. She promised she would never leave, and then she did. He promised he would never cheat, until he broke your trust. She failed to follow through on her end of the work. He hurt you. She chose alcohol over you.
It’s so easy to slip into #judgment when we don’t get what we want, especially when the stakes are higher. She abandoned you when you were a child. He hit you. She stole your idea at work and pretended it was hers. He raped you. She slept with your brother. He bombed women and children. She betrayed your trust.
That mean’s she’s not to be trusted, right? It means he’s wrong, right? Aren’t we supposed to color people either black or white so we can protect ourselves? Isn’t it right to judge immoral people?
But what if she let you down because she was in the middle of a nervous breakdown, and frankly, it was either you- or her life? What if he left you because his soul was busting to break free and he felt imprisoned with you? What if she abandoned you because of severe postpartum depression that nobody recognized or ……. sorry nonspace anymore in insta more at my www.facebook.com/mrchocobean #hug #world #love #lovegram